When I came home last week to a burgled home with a front door off it’s hinges and a ransacked house there were several different ways I could have reacted. As I might have done  in another time I would have been angry, felt that my private space had been invaded, that whovever did this … More Treasures

I am after answers, in one of the countless links on the net I came across an interesting post that basically outlined what actions you can continue to keep yourself as miserable as possible. I wanted to turn that idea on it’s head and come up with a modus operandi to achieve the opposite, this … More Live Truth and Love

  Over a meal with a girlfriend a realisation kicked off that there’s a side of myself that I have not considered, part by circumstances, part deliberately in quite a while. In a little Restaurant not far from home as I munched on a Schnitzel & fries I listened to a woman talk about her … More Shades of Gray

I recently did something I don’t feel too proud of, it felt right at the time, in a way it was what I needed to do, in my head at least, it was a Band-Aid on a rather large cut. I’ve talked a lot with women-friends, people that I can talk to openly about how … More Band-aid Love

  http://www.whitmanarchive.org/published/LG/1871/poems/284 Two simple lines from Walt Whitman, they say so much, that within us all we harbour desires and dreams and wants,  sometimes we are too frightened to acknowledge them, to admit them, sometimes they can feel so unobtainable that they remain destined to be forever beyond reach, the truly brave amongst us chase … More Now Voyager

A good friend told me I need a woman to adore me, that in turn I need a woman to adore, she was right. I realise that I am not in the best place in myself, that I have lots to sort out, that perhaps maybe I just need to give it time. But also … More On the Road again